alexandra lily astral

a pretty cool weirdo

i got a new gf recently

she’s so cool and nice and pretty and awesome

i like how she says my name

i like how our names have some letters in common

i like how she kisses me

i like how comfortable and safe her arms feel

:3

children’s needs

this is mostly a response to a post i keep seeing going around on wafrn.

the idea of this post is that children need safe spaces to experience and learn to deal with difficult emotions, with the implication that fiction like movies can serve a role in this effort.

i don’t disagree with this post. i think this post is correct. but i think the things being advocated in this post need to be done carefully.

what even is a gender? we still don’t know

recently one of my friends asked me about my gender experience when i was a child. she’s a woman of a certain experience herself and because of *gestures vaguely at the concept of a commonality between a lot of afab trans people* she kind of assumed my experience would be similar to other afab trans people she’s met. but i’m kind of a huge weirdo, and i’m full of surprises.